What likely is occurring is when you add nutrients, the plants are not limiting, so it rules them out as a limiting factor. This leaves light or CO2, you plenty of light on an 80 liter tank.
So.........now you are left with one variable: CO2.
Nutrients (excess) do not cause melting, algae poor growth etc.
Otherwise I would have melted plants as well, as well as most folks in the UK. Clearly, this is not the case.
You might find more support and resolve at
Welcome To The UK Aquatic Plant Society
They can clear up the myths and notions many of us have when looking at these issues.
Not easy figuring out what to believe.
So if you find some folks doing well locally, it might help you more so.
I can only say we know, independent on any other factors, that the nutrients and hard KH's are not the issue/s. Nor is light in your case, there might be other things in the tap, but activated carbon would address 99% of those and the most likely culprit is CO2 based on everything you have said.
UKAPS will tell you a similar thing I'd suspect.
More light = more CO2= more nutrients.
Too little of any of these= not good
Too much light makes balancing the other two much harder.
I'd stick with 2x 24W and tweak CO2, use Eas Carb for a couple of months, dose K2SO4, maybe 1.25mls 2x a week or so, do 50% weekly water change, add KH2PO4, maybe 4x less the amount of the K2SO4(1.25mls or 1/4 teaspoon), Traces at 5mls 2-3x a week.
I think CO2 is going to be your nemesis. Focus there and be careful with it, do this slowly. Easy carb will help while you adjust this.
Regards,
Tom Barr