Thanks for feelings,
My sister is unplugging the Marine tank and removing the fish.
She cannot keep it going and some sparks shot out, so no need to burn the place down.
Just too much for her to do.
While it's bad for her, it can still get a lot worse............never forget that.
Things always get better with time.
I'd wanted to break the tank down when I was there but she would not let me. Part of the grief process.
You just have to give things time.
I reorganized things so she could go through everything and pack things as she feels ready and has enough room to do so.
Her oldest daughter is there this next week or two so she is not alone in the house.
Yes, booze kills, but some folks can have glass a wine etc, but there's a lot who cannot. Same with many things. Driving cars sober kills as well...accidents happen all the time, lord knows I see them all up and down HYW I-80 along a very busy part here in the Bay area.........but things get much worse with drugs like EtOH.
Just keep i n mind how many things you do have to live for, how short life is, and yep, it can always get even worst.
Be thankful for what you have, most of all, the folks close to you.
Our time is limited, make the most of it.
Regards,
Tom Barr